As written in the legend of Ramayana, the ancient city of Janakpur was the home of the eldest daughter of King Janak, the king of the Mithila Kingdom, princess Sita. She was the daughter of the universe, an extraordinary, ideal woman resonating the beauty of womanhood and femininity. She is also known as the daughter of the Earth. Sita, being the only one who so effortlessly lifted the impossible bow of Lord Shiva, King Janak organized a Swayambar for her where he decided that the man who could lift up that bow would be the one to marry the beautiful princess. After countless men trying but failing the task, the Prince Ram of Ayodhya came in and lifted the bow as effortlessly as Sita did.
The divine couple got married, and ever since then, to celebrate the union of the idealistic gods, Bibah Panchami is celebrated on the fifth day of the Shukla Paksha in the Aradhayana months according to the Mithila Calendar (that falls somewhere around November to December).
As written in the Ramayana, the couple along with Ram’s brother went to reside in a forest (vanvas) as per the wish of his stepmother. The king had told his young queen that he would grant her two wishes. She then told the king to banish Ram and crown her son, Bharata as king of Ayodhya. During this exile, Sita was abducted by Ravan, the king of Lanka. A large battle was bought between the forces of Lord Ram and Ravana. Lord Ram became victorious and was reunited with Sita. Lord Ram was then hailed as a hero and was rightfully instated as the king of Ayodhya. Over the years, their story became a symbol for Hinduism and the victory of good over evil.
Thousands of people crowd the Janaki Temple, Ram temple, and many other temples of the Holy city of Janakpur to worship the god Ram and Sita in the mornings. The Janaki Temple is decorated for the celebration with colourful garlands, flowers, Mithila arts, and the sacred statue of Ram and Sita that stands in the centre of the temple is also cleaned and put on new clothes, just like it is done during any Mithila weddings.
The devotees perform different traditional marriage rituals that are traditionally done at weddings. Every rite is run through with devotional songs ‘bhajans’ that recite the stories and purposes of every action performed. Men and women, especially kids, are dressed up as Lord Ram and Mother Sita and are carried around in chariots during this day. The procession takes place on the bustling roads in front of the temples. Traditional wedding music is played to imitate the ‘baaraat’ (janti) of Lord Ram as he came to marry the princess. In the evenings, the devotees and people of the city gather up in the fairs put out in front of temples where people can explore, dance, eat to celebrate the auspicious day of their gods with each other.
Bibah Panchami stands as a symbol of Mithila culture, which dates back thousands of years. Even today, the exact process followed during the marriage of Ram and Sita are followed with the utmost attention to detail. The various aspects of the celebration present the rich artistic history of the Mithila people and the communities culture. Which has been passed down for generations.
Along with which a sense of togetherness is also taught to the next generation. Families, neighbours, far relatives come together as one, share delicacies they prepared at their homes the night before, and find a reason to appreciate each other and their identity as a community to celebrate the holy matrimony. Making the festival of Bibah Panchami a portrayal of the integrity of the community they build up together.
